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Be irresistible! 10 ways to be the best wife ever! (Muslim style)

Be irresistible. 10 winning ways 1. YOUR BEAUTY Use your Fitnah (beauty and overtures of allurement) to win your husband’s heart. All women have the ornaments that Allah blessed them with.  Use what beauty you have to win the heart of your husband.  At home dress up, wear the colurs and clothes he likes to see you in. Use makeup, perfume, jewellery – in short – do what it takes to be attractive to him. Earrings, bracelets and pretty dresses – wear the best for him. 2. HIS MOODS Be sensitive to his moods, feelings and needs. Welcome him when he comes …Read more

Love Story – Experience of love
Blessings Today

Love Story – Experience of love

MARVELOUS MYSTERY OF LOVE  For a long time I have been dwelled in understanding this mystery. FAHM O SHAOOR Really love is beyond all the so-called fahm o shaoor. Fahm o shaoor means the realizing of wiseness in Urdu. It means the realization of wiseness or in this case a greater realization about love. Fahm o Shaoor means the way of …Read more

100 QUESTIONS YOU SHOULD ASK YOURSELF BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED
Love/Romance

100 QUESTIONS YOU SHOULD ASK YOURSELF BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED

100 QUESTIONS YOU SHOULD ASK YOURSELF BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED These 100 questions are from the website http://www.haqislam.org/pre-marital-questions/. Here are my answers. Before you get married do yourself a favor and work through these questions and offer them to your intended. If they are not prepared to do it then that is a red flag as to the level of their co-operation and …Read more

100 Questions to ask yourself if you are a Muslim contemplating marriage or a non-Muslim thinking of marrying a Muslim
Love/Romance

100 Questions to ask yourself if you are a Muslim contemplating marriage or a non-Muslim thinking of marrying a Muslim

Today I answered these 100 questions. I think it is important to answer these questions if you are thinking of marrying, or remarrying. I have shared these answers to encourage you to spend some time writing your own answers. http://abetoday.com/2012/04/07/100-questions-you-should-ask-yourself-before-you-get-married/ I think everyone should ask 100 questions and when I find 1,000 questions I would ask them of myself and others. There is …Read more

MARRIED HEAVEN FOR MUSLIMS. 10 secrets to ensure a lifetime of blissful companionship
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MARRIED HEAVEN FOR MUSLIMS. 10 secrets to ensure a lifetime of blissful companionship

1. SHARED DESTINY: Each becomes the other’s lifetime companion. Now their destiny is as one. All events are now to be tackled together as a team with mutual affection and respect. 2. CONTENTMENT AND ACCEPTANCE: While the wife should accept her husband, his home and income as her lot, and always feel that her husband is her true beloved, best friend …Read more

A moving story of forgiveness
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A moving story of forgiveness

HOLY HOME Once a renowned scholar in Islam – Imam Ahmed Bin Hanbal – wanted to stay for the night in the grounds of a mosque (Masjid in Arabic). His reasons for wanting to do this was that he did not know anyone in this particular town. He had said his prayers and intended to stay in the yard (grounds). …Read more

Out of the fire and into the frying pan. 5 points to think about before you marry and divorce
Love/Romance

Out of the fire and into the frying pan. 5 points to think about before you marry and divorce

SET FORMULA FOR A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE  I don’t have a guaranteed formula for a successful marriage but I do have some ideas on how to make a successful life which includes being reasonably happily married.  These are principles and ideas taught to me by my mother who has never divorced. She has been married twice. Her first husband passed away …Read more

Is there a workable recipe for matchmaking? 4 tips on Marriage and Love the Bill Cosby way
Love/Romance

Is there a workable recipe for matchmaking? 4 tips on Marriage and Love the Bill Cosby way

ARRANGED LOVE  When we talk about marriage Western style – it is about two people getting together, usually feeling and saying they are in love and wanting to make it permanent. In the East, where some form of arranged marriage is organized – love is said to develop after marriage. ARRANGED MARRIAGE Here the parents and relatives have assessessed whether …Read more

Go for Gold: 5 ways to avoid the divorce courts and head towards 50 golden years
Love/Romance

Go for Gold: 5 ways to avoid the divorce courts and head towards 50 golden years

What are you headed towards? The divorce courts or your golden wedding anniversary?  BLESSED MARRIAGE BLESSING B: Bonds of love need to be reinforced to keep the bonds strong, stronger and the strongest. L: Loving, long marriages are revered by society when we celebrate silver, golden and diamond wedding anniversaries. Loving, long marriages are the best love stories. E: Exemplary …Read more

Daughter-in-law and mother-in-law woes or wonders. Rehana Matri points the ways to blessings
Love/Romance

Daughter-in-law and mother-in-law woes or wonders. Rehana Matri points the ways to blessings

TOO CLOSE FOR COMFORT We use black and white to highlight the great opposites. When it comes to love and hate the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is highlighted. If not love and hate then difficult at times, especially when in Asia the daughter-in-law comes to live in her mother-in-law’s home. For some that is too close for comfort. GENERATION …Read more

Your children are not your children, says Kahil Gilbrin. Do you really agree?
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Your children are not your children, says Kahil Gilbrin. Do you really agree?

THE BOUNTY OF BABIES One of the longings of most normal people is to have a baby. Historically, people wanted children so they could have family life and the children would help in the family business – on the farm, for example. Children were also part of the family social security system. Children would be there to help when an …Read more

20 relationship boosters for greater relationship richness in business and pleasure
Business

20 relationship boosters for greater relationship richness in business and pleasure

POSITIVE POWER 1. When you have a choice as to who you can associate with – choose people who are positive, who can help you positively and who give you an energy boost when they are around. Be with people who you are proud of, people you admire and people who like and respect you. 2. DETERMINING DESTINY Let go …Read more

Nothing you do is a waste of time if you know how to benefit from what you do. 10 benefits
Business

Nothing you do is a waste of time if you know how to benefit from what you do. 10 benefits

Both in your business life and your personal life nothing is a waste of time if you take the capitalize on everything you do approach. Here are 10 ways to benefit. 1. I HAVE ENOUGH TO BE HAPPY Of course you do. Never be upset with what you don’t have. Strive to be content with what you have and think …Read more

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